tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9175083770428611289.post9189774628862615957..comments2012-07-27T21:40:40.718+03:00Comments on A Writer's Home: This was a long time coming - personal rant that needs to get outUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9175083770428611289.post-50007548375244988502012-03-12T22:43:32.805+02:002012-03-12T22:43:32.805+02:00Hi Tia,
That just happened to me and I was very h...Hi Tia,<br /><br />That just happened to me and I was very hurt and I was made to feel like I was dirt. When you form these type relationships, to me it almost hurts as much as if you see them everyday. I try not to let it get to me but it does.judiebabiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17673060315114415932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9175083770428611289.post-13052828138472166462012-02-23T21:12:50.386+02:002012-02-23T21:12:50.386+02:00Those are the risks with our on line life. You can...Those are the risks with our on line life. You can be whoever you want to be. You remember the girl that faked her own death? After worrying everyone like that she came back saying that she just needed a break, that she was ok and she didn´t die (obviously). My point is, it takes time to get to know ppl in RL it takes longer when people can hide behind their laptops.<br />I´m assuming she will read the post, as she is still around, I hope she will understand that her actions had consequences and learn from her mistake.<br />I don’t think she is worth any more of your time.Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09582069489257677738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9175083770428611289.post-7771747875401638402012-02-16T01:16:10.137+02:002012-02-16T01:16:10.137+02:00I've built walls around me. I rarely let peopl...I've built walls around me. I rarely let people in. So when I do, and something like this happens... I don't know. It all felt so unfair that it went completely beyond anything I could have imagined.<br /><br />I was raised to respect people, above all. Maybe that's why it was so shocking and why I still feel uncomfortable about it all.<br /><br />Or I just tend to believe people feel the same things I do (when I'm at the point I let myself feel something, that is, lol).<br /><br />Takes all kinds. It's so difficult to tell people's motives online, so hard to be careful when you begin trust them.<br /><br />I'm glad you were able to remain open. I never was without the walls, I just lower them for certain people. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02126060780635759703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9175083770428611289.post-61183378466944610422012-02-16T01:09:16.011+02:002012-02-16T01:09:16.011+02:00I've been deeply and surprisingly betrayed onl...I've been deeply and surprisingly betrayed online by two people I considered closer than RL friends. One I traveled a long distance to meet and she seemed to be very much the sweetheart I'd gotten to know...until, a couple of months later, she logged into our LJ community and trashed it, destroying it totally and embarrassing me in public (not the greatest sin, but man, what she left behind was shocking!).<br /><br />It took months to get over that one. The previous one...I won't even get into that, except to say she turned on me and attacked me online in various forums. <br /><br />I consider them both sociopaths. I'm more careful now. But I still trust. I remain open to new online relationships. It's who I am.Fenravenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08808254283966019576noreply@blogger.com