And here it is, on the Coming Soon page. :)
Sunday, May 6, 2012
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Contest Winners!
I promised to post about who won the contest I held at the Dreamspinner Blog.
I've contacted the winners and they've selected their prizes. :) If you didn't get an email, sorry, you didn't win this time.
BUT! There will be other contest this summer and in the autumn, so don't worry, you'll have your chance!
Thank you so much, everyone who participated. I loved to read your answers. :)
Once again, congratulations Jessie, Monica, Judi and Sabrina, I hope you enjoy your prizes!
Have a nice springtime!
I've contacted the winners and they've selected their prizes. :) If you didn't get an email, sorry, you didn't win this time.
BUT! There will be other contest this summer and in the autumn, so don't worry, you'll have your chance!
Thank you so much, everyone who participated. I loved to read your answers. :)
Once again, congratulations Jessie, Monica, Judi and Sabrina, I hope you enjoy your prizes!
Have a nice springtime!
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
My only comment about Fifty Shades (and it isn't even mine)
Today I'm reblogging a post. This is from a good friend of mine and she put my thoughts into words better than I ever could.
(Please feel free to re-blog, re-post, re-tweet, link,
copy, plagiarize, do whatever the hell you want with the above. It would
be nice if you credited it back to me but in truth, if you want to
stick this somewhere else where it might be seen by more people, please,
do it. I’m not precious. Spread the word.)
Fifty Shades & The “Philadelphia Incident” (as originally posted by hidingfromsome1)
I’m not really sure if this is the best place to voice these opinions
and concerns. And I’m not really sure if it’s my place to be voicing
them at all. This whole topic isn’t easy for me to discuss (it’s very
personal) but I’ve never been very good at keeping my mouth shut when I
think I have a point to make.
So - I’ve found over recent weeks two different hot topics that I’ve been paying attention to have apparently dovetailed.
I’m talking about the Fifty Shades of Grey series, an adapted
Twilight- fan fiction which has been published and hit the New York
Times Bestsellers list, and what people in the BDSM community have been
calling the “Philadelphia Incident”.
To briefly bring those not familiar with either topic up to date;
Fifty Shades of Grey is a story that deals with a young, naive virgin
who enters into a domination and submission relationship with an older,
powerful, controlling man. Eventually she manages to bring out his
softer side and the two fall in love.
The “Philadelphia Incident” concerns a younger, inexperienced female
submissive who entered into a domination and submission relationship
with an older dominant man. Her limits were violated and she was forced
to enter into oral sex with the man against her will. Some people in the
BDSM community are calling this rape. Some people have suggested that
the submissive woman consented. Others have criticised the submissive
woman for not fully understanding what she was getting herself into. The
young woman has now been run out of her home due to the criticism,
publicity and notoriety she has faced.
Hopefully my point is already becoming clear.
In her novels E L James romanticizes the BDSM community, takes
elements of ‘play’ out of context and dramatises what many would
consider to be extremely unsafe D/s practice. The female in the story
enters into ‘scenes’ which she is unsure about, where limits have not
been pre-discussed or agreed, and where she is abandoned post-scene on
more than one occasion with no after care or conversation about what had
happened during the session.
The novel completely ignores elements of safe play that those
familiar with the BDSM community would immediately recognise. RACK
stands for Risk Aware Consensual Kink. SSC stands for Safe, Sane and
Consensual. (Note the repeated word in both anagrams). This topic is
completely ignored or glossed over in James’ novels and, considering the
reaction they have amassed, this is a concern.
Safe BDSM play can be amazing. I can say this as someone who has both
dominated others and submitted to others in a range of situations. It
is something that I rarely discuss other than with those in the
community for fear of repercussions - BDSM is fairly misunderstood by
the wider public. In the right circumstances, with the right
forethought, planning, and discussion then there are still hundreds of
ways a session can go wrong. I have been mid-session with someone who I
love very much, in a safe place, when we were both fully aware of each
other’s limits. And I panicked. And ended up vomiting into the toilet
and crying into his chest. This was an isolated incident, and we weren’t
doing anything particularly risky at the time. But I still panicked.
Fortunately my partner was fantastic at releasing me quickly and
soothing me afterwards. Even with the best of intentions things can
still go very wrong.
Although I have not followed reaction to James’ novel closely, one
article I recently read criticising the BDSM elements in the story was
met with comments from a reader expressing that the story is fantasy,
not unlike the Harry Potter stories or Twilight, and not as a how-to
guide of BDSM.
Firstly, thank God this isn’t a how-to guide of BDSM because James
clearly has little, if any experience of D/s relationships. Secondly,
this point in particular scared me more than any other I read.
If one was to dress in a cloak and wand and pretend to be a wizard,
short of poking an eye out there is a limited amount of danger that
could occur.
If a young woman with no experience of BDSM was to make her way into
the community and play with an older man when she herself was unaware of
her own limits, very terrible things can happen, as demonstrated
recently in Philadelphia. Comparing Fifty Shades to Harry Potter is
simply ludicrous, on many levels. There are many different layers and
elements to BDSM, starting at fluffy handcuffs and ending in blood,
tears and rape. Someone pretending to be a wizard will not experience
these things.
The second point made by the same commenter was that James never
intended for the novel to be so popular, it was released for a very
small audience only and she was surprised at the reaction it has
received. I don’t think this argument holds much weight either. I’m
writing this article for the consumption of a very small audience too. I
do not expect many people to read or react to it. Does that excuse me
from factual accuracy? Not at all. If my article goes viral and
thousands of people read it then I am still responsible for the words
that I have put out there.
Finally, I want to reiterate that a huge majority of people in the
BDSM community recognise our vulnerability (BDSM is actually illegal in
the United States - yes, illegal - I’m fortunate to live in the
UK) and as such, instances such as the “Philadelphia Incident” are
rare. Most people play by the rules of RACK. Most people are responsible
for themselves, for their partners, and there is a strong sense of
‘mentoring’ to ensure that newbies to the community are watched and are
able to learn from those with more experience. Despite all this, it’s
too easy for things to be taken just that one step too far with
disastrous results.
I feel like it is my responsibility as one of the people who bridges
the gap between the BDSM community and the Fifty Shades readership to
speak out against the practices shown in the series. Please, please - if
you are a single woman who has read these stories and wants to explore
the topics contained therein, do everything you can to not follow in the
footsteps of both E L James’ characters and the young girl in
Philadelphia. Take your time. Find someone you can trust. Be safe.
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Thursday, April 26, 2012
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
That Heads Up (part 2) I Promised!
Here we go!
Tomorrow, on the 26th of April, I'll be taking over the Dreamspinner Press-blog to do a little thing for my latest releases and maybe even give you hints of the next bigger project I have and other things to come this summer.
I'll be running a contest too, with some neat prizes including my books, a gift card to the Dreamspinner Store (or AllRomanceEbooks if you'd prefer that), a special package from yours truly and so on and so forth.. You just better come by and see what's up for grabs!
I know it's a short notice, so if you see this after the 26th, don't worry, you can still go back to the blog and read how you can enter the contest as long as you get there before the 29th.
Let The Games Begin! (and the odds, and all that ;))
Tomorrow, on the 26th of April, I'll be taking over the Dreamspinner Press-blog to do a little thing for my latest releases and maybe even give you hints of the next bigger project I have and other things to come this summer.
I'll be running a contest too, with some neat prizes including my books, a gift card to the Dreamspinner Store (or AllRomanceEbooks if you'd prefer that), a special package from yours truly and so on and so forth.. You just better come by and see what's up for grabs!
I know it's a short notice, so if you see this after the 26th, don't worry, you can still go back to the blog and read how you can enter the contest as long as you get there before the 29th.
Let The Games Begin! (and the odds, and all that ;))
Thursday, March 29, 2012
Heads Up!
Okay, since I have so many stories coming up like right now or soon, I'm planning on holding a little contest this spring.
Actually it might be a big contest, since it will have some nice prizes, after all. And I totally mean nice on my scale. I'm talking about free ebooks of my three releases (Lucky, Something New, and Thank My Lucky Scars), maybe a small gift card for an eBook store of your choice, some swag... That sort of thing.
So, keep your eyes glued to this space, people! Soon enough you'll have some information and possibly some neat prizes!
That said, Something New is out today and you can already find it from the Dreamspinner Press store and at least All Romance Ebooks and later from Amazon and all the other places DSP novellas usually are sold.
Actually it might be a big contest, since it will have some nice prizes, after all. And I totally mean nice on my scale. I'm talking about free ebooks of my three releases (Lucky, Something New, and Thank My Lucky Scars), maybe a small gift card for an eBook store of your choice, some swag... That sort of thing.
So, keep your eyes glued to this space, people! Soon enough you'll have some information and possibly some neat prizes!
That said, Something New is out today and you can already find it from the Dreamspinner Press store and at least All Romance Ebooks and later from Amazon and all the other places DSP novellas usually are sold.
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Friday, March 9, 2012
Upcoming release and the rest of my schedule
Hello, everyone. It's now early March, and I'm looking at the release schedule I have and the personal deadlines that are looming and I thought I'd give you an update.
My next release will be out on March 28th. It's called Something New, and I really do love this story. I hope you'll like it too. In some ways, Something New manages to catch many things about my personal writing style and my "secret agenda" in my writing. That's why I'm so happy with it, really. Oh and the cover by Catt Ford is really lovely too.
After Something New, the next one in my preliminary list of things to come is a little story called Thank My Lucky Scars. It's also a novella and revolves around a London bike-messenger and an American porn star. It's a fun little story, so I'm looking forward to it as well. Tentative release is April-May.
Now, the book after the two aforementioned is called Chuffed. It's a shifter-book, the first book in a several books-series I've titled Finnshifters. The story arc revolves around a sort of "shifter sanctuary" in Eastern Finland near the Russian border, and the shifters who live on the little farm. There's always at least one main couple, and while the books are M/M romance, the stories are as much about the whole "farm family" as they are any given main couple.
Chuffed should be out in May-June, and I have a submission deadline in about a week for book 2 which doesn't have a title yet. While the book is already almost done, I'm still feeling slight pressure from the deadline I've set myself (so that you guys would have the next part to read in a few months time from the release of the first book, see, I'm thinking about you here!)
My next novel-length story is a vampire-story I've felt like writing for a long time. It's called Technically Dead and it's going to be released in July-August. I'll tell you more about it later.
Once I have Finnshifters 2 written and sent, I need to figure out what to write next. I feel like writing a few separate stories but I also know I need to concentrate on one. So I'll figure that out soon, since after all I should be done with the current story in a week. Ugh. Well, here's to making my deadline and for a nice springtime for everyone!
My next release will be out on March 28th. It's called Something New, and I really do love this story. I hope you'll like it too. In some ways, Something New manages to catch many things about my personal writing style and my "secret agenda" in my writing. That's why I'm so happy with it, really. Oh and the cover by Catt Ford is really lovely too.
After Something New, the next one in my preliminary list of things to come is a little story called Thank My Lucky Scars. It's also a novella and revolves around a London bike-messenger and an American porn star. It's a fun little story, so I'm looking forward to it as well. Tentative release is April-May.
Now, the book after the two aforementioned is called Chuffed. It's a shifter-book, the first book in a several books-series I've titled Finnshifters. The story arc revolves around a sort of "shifter sanctuary" in Eastern Finland near the Russian border, and the shifters who live on the little farm. There's always at least one main couple, and while the books are M/M romance, the stories are as much about the whole "farm family" as they are any given main couple.
Chuffed should be out in May-June, and I have a submission deadline in about a week for book 2 which doesn't have a title yet. While the book is already almost done, I'm still feeling slight pressure from the deadline I've set myself (so that you guys would have the next part to read in a few months time from the release of the first book, see, I'm thinking about you here!)
My next novel-length story is a vampire-story I've felt like writing for a long time. It's called Technically Dead and it's going to be released in July-August. I'll tell you more about it later.
Once I have Finnshifters 2 written and sent, I need to figure out what to write next. I feel like writing a few separate stories but I also know I need to concentrate on one. So I'll figure that out soon, since after all I should be done with the current story in a week. Ugh. Well, here's to making my deadline and for a nice springtime for everyone!
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