The Acid Tests (an article about BDSM and finding a good top)

First of all, this is not mine. I found it from FetLife.com, where the original writer had posted it. It's been published before in various places and translated to a couple of languages, but it resonated with me (for multiple reasons) and it is, sadly, a good reminder for everyone.

So whether you're on the kinky side or just write kink, or you're just interested, check out this great article The Acid Tests (Sorting real Tops from fakers) by Michael Winans. It's bound to give you something to think about, and maybe it will save you from trouble whether it's blocking that annoying online guy that messes with you or figuring out how your Dom character should act in your writing.

Oh, and if you want to share this article, just remember to keep the original writer's name attached, thanks. And sorry about the super long post, jump break (the read more-function) doesn't seem to be working. :)